One of the books I think every man, every father out there should read? THE RESOLUTION FOR MEN by Alex Kendrick.
He is truly an inspiring man. An associate pastor at Sherwood Baptist Church in Georgia. He also writes, produces, directs Christian movies.
He is one of those few actors that actually wants their movies to inspire, and not worry about making a dime off it. Volunteers from his church star in some of his movies.
The message in each movie, is so profound so powerful, I am left feeling uplifted and happy.
…I now believe that God desires for EVERY father to courageously step up and do whatever it takes to be involved in the lives of his children. But more than just being there providing for them, he is to walk with them through their young lives and be a visual representation of the character of God, their father in heaven. A father should love his children, and seek to win their hearts. He should protect them, discipline them, and teach them about God. He should model how to walk with integrity and treat others with respect, and should call out his children to become responsible men and women, who live their lives for what matters in eternity. Some men will hear this, and mock it. Or ignore it. But I tell you that as a father, you are accountable to God for the position of influence he has given you. You can’t fall asleep at the wheel, only to wake up one day and realize that your job or your hobbies have no eternal value, but the souls of your children do. Some men will hear this and agree with it, but have no resolve to live it out. Instead, they will live for themselves, and waste the opportunity to leave a godly legacy for the next generation. But there are some men, who regardless of the mistakes we’ve made in the past, regardless of what our fathers did NOT do for us, will give the strength of our arms and the rest of our days to loving God with all that we are and to teach our children to do the same. And whenever possible to love and mentor others who have no father in their lives, but who desperately need help and direction. And we are inviting any man whose heart is willing and courageous, to join us in this resolution. In my home, the decision has already been made. You don’t have to ask who will guide my family, because by God’s grace, I will. You don’t have to ask who will teach my son to follow Christ, because I will. Who will accept the responsibility of providing and protecting my family? I will. Who will ask God to break the chain of destructive patterns in my family’s history? I will. Who will pray for, and bless my children to boldly pursue whatever God calls them to do? I am their father. I will. I accept this responsibility and it is my privilege to embrace it. I want the favor of God and his blessing on my home. Any good man does. So where are you men of courage? Where are you, fathers who fear the Lord? It’s time to rise up and answer the call that God has given to you and to say I will. I will. I will!
His speech about single women being hard workers, and should be thanked was sweet. But then he went onto say how crucial it was that a child have a father. Have a strong male influence in the child’s life to guide them. That having a fatherless childhood was a pattern repeating itself. Sure, a woman could raise a child on her own, but if that mother and child fell through society’s crack, the child would end up on the street, a felon.
A child does need a strong male influence, especially if the father skipped out, or there is a same sex marriage. (lesbians, of course. Don’t hate my opinion)